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How to: navigate (big!) change

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Let me ask you a question. Have you ever changed your life when you hit a "tipping point"? Where you sat in a situation and put up with it for SO. LONG. that eventually, you knew, something had to change? Yup. I feel you.  And I...was very stubborn!  For me, I RESISTED that change with every fiber of my being. Why? Because change is hard. Change is scary. Change shifts your world on its axis.  But change can be necessary.  And change comes with GIFTS. (We'll get into those!) But first...I want to talk about what leads to change. One of the biggest changes in my life was, in part, inspired by a woman I'd worked with. To be very honest -- everything about her triggered me. There was a deep lack of boundaries, consistent misinformation, mismanagement, inappropriate and hurtful comments, elitism..for years.  At first? I tried ignoring it.  Then, I would address it -- even directly, with her. Later, I would enlist help and guidance of those that managed me (and her).  Not